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4 Telltale Signs of a Happy Girlfriend

From a silent observer

Alan Trapulionis
3 min readJul 12, 2020
A happy human female in her natural habitat. Shutterstock

I’m 25, and I’ve never really had a healthy, lasting relationship. Most of them were built on mutual deficiencies, not personal surpluses. Hence, idiotic.

But I have two eyes, and my semi-functional brain has always guided me towards people who do have healthy, lasting relationships. The ones that feel, sound and look unquestionable.

I’m a guy, so the guy part was easier to understand. Confident in their own skin, critical towards themselves, decisive, tidy.

But it was watching the women that was truly magical to me. Boys be boys. Women become something else entirely.

Here are my observations of what a happy girlfriend looks like:

She‘s unarmed

This is probably the biggest giveaway, and you’ll see this characteristic a mile away.

Truly happy girlfriends got so much love and security stored in them they don’t mind sharing it with others.

Guys can often mistake their openness for flirtation, but it’s not that at all. She’s simply so confident in herself and her relationship she doesn’t mind sharing a bit of her nuclear sun to warm you up.

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Alan Trapulionis
Alan Trapulionis

Written by Alan Trapulionis

In quest of understanding how humans work.

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